{"id":2681,"date":"2021-02-10T18:22:34","date_gmt":"2021-02-10T18:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/asianfriendly.com\/blog\/?p=2681"},"modified":"2021-02-10T18:22:34","modified_gmt":"2021-02-10T18:22:34","slug":"love-or-lust-how-to-figure-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/asianfriendly.com\/blog\/love-or-lust-how-to-figure-out\/","title":{"rendered":"Love or Lust? How to figure out"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div><p>February had been the month of love. What is love? Philosophers, writers, and poets defined and described love in many things. The love they say transcends all boundaries. It is a feeling that makes everything worth living. It is like a rosary that is full of mystery.<\/p>\n<p>Each person wants to be in love. It is common to hear stories regarding love at first sight. However, is it really possible for a person to fall in love at first sight?<\/p>\n<p>In some universities, comprehensive guidance is incorporated into the school curriculum. Human feelings such as love are discussed. It has been a subject of debate in classes. Teachers teach students that there is no such thing as love at first sight. It is merely lust at first sight.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-transparent ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Summary<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e17dd30e09c\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e17dd30e09c\"  aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/asianfriendly.com\/blog\/love-or-lust-how-to-figure-out\/#why_do_teachers_say_so\" >Why do Teachers Say so?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/asianfriendly.com\/blog\/love-or-lust-how-to-figure-out\/#why_lust_at_first_sight\" >Why Lust at First Sight?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/asianfriendly.com\/blog\/love-or-lust-how-to-figure-out\/#love_or_lust\" >Love or Lust?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"why_do_teachers_say_so\"><\/span>Why do Teachers Say so?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>First, to fall in love, one should know the person he or she is in-loved with. One cannot just love a person without knowing. Second, passion is deeply rooted in the heart. It does not change quickly. As such, a person can&#8217;t be in-love today and fall out of love the next day. It might be an attraction that was mistaken for love. If the appeal was too much, call it a fatal attraction &#8211; not love. Third, love grows between two individuals at a particular time. Considering these, love takes time. It is simply not possible for a person to fall in love at first sight. It is more of lust at first sight.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"why_lust_at_first_sight\"><\/span>Why Lust at First Sight?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Lust is a strong desire for a person. It is usually easy to lust for a person at first sight. It is based more on the physical attributes &#8211; pretty and handsome faces, sexiness, manliness, and in some cases, the social standing of an individual. Money and power attract followers. Lust does not last long.<\/p>\n<p>When physical and social attributes wore off, the passion fades. Biblically, lust is considered a mortal sin. It drives people away from living a Christian life. Since it is an intense desire, it is hard to suppress. Some people pursue their manly urges, not thinking of the consequences later on. Hence, there is no good thing that comes from lust. It just offers temporary enjoyment &#8230; unlike everlasting happiness for love.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"love_or_lust\"><\/span>Love or Lust?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pragmatists say it is always lust at first sight. But for romantics, believe in love at first sight. For them, whatever, whenever, wherever, love at first sight exists. Most women dream of experiencing it.<\/p>\n<p>February had been the month of love. What is love? Philosophers, writers, and poets defined and described love in many things. The love they say transcends all boundaries. It is a feeling that makes everything worth living. It is like a rosary, which is full of mystery.<\/p>\n<p>Each person wanted to be in love. It is common to hear stories regarding love at first sight. However, is it really possible for a person to fall in love at first sight?<\/p>\n<p>In some universities, comprehensive guidance is incorporated into the school curriculum. Human feelings such as love are discussed. It has been a subject of debate in classes. Teachers teach students that there is no such thing as love at first sight. It is merely lust at first sight.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for reading!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>February had been the month of love. What is love? Philosophers, writers, and poets defined and described love in many things. The love they say transcends all boundaries. It is a feeling that makes everything worth living. It is like a rosary that is full of mystery. Each person wants to be in love. 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